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Tantric Intimacy is touching the
divine within ourselves and our partner. It is a spiritual path in
itself, which leads to a grounded connection with God through an open
hearted connection to our beloved. In real tantric intimacy get to
experience our partner in a way where we feel intimately connected on
a very
sensual level with the God Source.
In Tantra, when skin
touches skin, it is God touching God. We are reaching the highest most
ecstatic loving place a human being can achieve. The divine
presence within us is fully self expressed, extending out from our
merging hearts into the
entire Universe.
Tantric intimacy
practiced in a long term committed relationship creates a foundation for a
empowering partnership and magnetic connection. When you're creating sensually intimate spiritual
experiences with your partner every single day, there is such a deep
experience of fulfillment and total life satisfaction that you cannot
even imagine leaving your partner. You know the levels of profound
spiritual completion within yourself are only found with this amazing
soul. This creates amazing levels of trust and freedom in the
relationship which allow it to be a true long term enjoyable intimate
love affair.
When practicing tantric
intimacy with your partner the level of attraction and pull towards
each other can magnify so much that you might mistake them for the
Divine itself. This is where Romantic Love and real Tantric Love need
to be defined. The romantic person falls in love getting attached to
the persons body, mind and ego. The tantric person rises in love,
knowing the whole time it is the spiritual essence making love to
itself and through itself. Here are a
complete list of signs to look out for to see if your relationship
is based on ego or soul.
When you first
start practicing Tantric Intimacy your ego most likely will be leading
the way. It will be thinking, what can I get out of this practice
for me, instead of thinking what do I have to give to
enhance my lovers life. The ego is always self serving in a very
contracted time constricted way. The spiritual approach ignites the
understanding that there is a very sacred divine being that you're
merging with on a very deep intimate level and you should be VERY
appreciative and honoring, as if you were going to be making love
only this one time.
When you are practicing
tantra and making love on a daily basis the level of
togetherness and magnetic attraction intensifies. Having some form of
consented penetration either soft or hard with your partner is
essential to create a Kundalini
Awakening together. When your energies are synchronized, and your
sex center, perineum and heart is open and relaxed, the Kundalini
rises on her on. We enter into the greatest spiritual kingdom where
the deepest core of our being is merged with the Divine. The spiritual
connection is born out of this sweet safe foundation created in a long
term feeling of partnership from both sides.
The 3 Golden Secrets
to Tantric Intimacy
The 1st Secret
The main goal of this
tantric intimate practice is to not reach your normal
ejaculation and have a contracted efforting approach when making love. If you
wish to reach a cosmic multi-orgasmic state in your life, you
have to let go of the old ways you were taught
how to have sex. The purpose
here is to accumulate energy to ascend to the high and holy Cosmic Orgasm state with
your partner. This is
built only through many weeks or months of practicing deep tantric
intimacy with your
partner. This may include spending hours each day soul gazing,
authentically sharing, and laying belly-to-belly in bed. In this practice of soul connection you're
naturally breathing in
harmony with the others breath, making emotionally releasing sounds,
gazing into their eyes to see the soul inside them (and you), while exploring
their body sensually. You are constantly
opening the heart center throughout this practice which is the main
key to its success. This is the foundation for real tantric intimacy and these techniques build a foundation for massive spiritual
energy to root itself and will eventually
give birth to a Cosmic Orgasm.
"When spirituality
and sensuality become one movement, lovemaking becomes a meditation
and divine
opportunity to evolve on your spiritual path." ~Jafree
The
2nd Secret
The golden key here is learning how to work with your
Kundalini
so that she is neither too high and overly ecstatic nor too controlled
and unable to fully express. The Kundalini is moved with the breath
and through the mind circulating energy from heart center to sex
center and into the others heart and sex center while in this deep
tantric intimate embrace. At all cost s the man must not release a
drop of his semen for the Kundalini to rise. He must learn to pull up and in of his energy at
the perineum. This control soon activates his Kundalini when the
sex center can be fully relaxed and
open, then the Kundalini gently finds its way up his spine. For the woman, she wants to
do the same as far as not push for a contracted release or typical
climax. She must open and expand her sexual energy as she feels it
may climax with any tension to push or reach for an orgasmic peak. Her
Cosmic Orgasm comes through surrender, welcoming the ecstasy, opening
up to the Divine Masculine entering her. If either person
hits a contracted orgasmic peak other than relax and expand their
energy inside before they peak, all the tantric energy is lost and the
party is quickly over.
"The day on which
we come to know the supreme consciousness within us, then the outside
world will also appear to us like the expanse of the supreme
consciousness. Then we shall touch a stone as if we are touching our
beloved, because the stone is not stone, then it is God." ~Osho
The
3rd Secret
Real tantric
intimacy to reach the Cosmic Orgasm requires absolute trust and
honesty. You must be able to share everything and anything with your
partner and be at peace with their response or lack of response. Each
day make space to practice sharing information that you cannot share,
and talk about everything you cannot talk about. Be
radical honest with your
partner about everything in words that they can understand and hear.
This takes getting to know your partners love language and attuning to
their listening. You must extend yourself while sharing beyond
what you feel is your "comfort zone" to talk about what you are unable
to talk about. This is a way to rise higher in love by reaching out to
your beloved from your heart. The walls will start crumbling
down when you choose to invite in a deeper Tantric Love
and intimacy over protecting or defending the ego. This
practice will create a deepening in
vulnerability which cretates room for more openness, intimacy, love,
trust and a deeper heart connection. From here you can relax
completely into your partnership and yourself free from ego, which
paves the path for the Cosmic Orgasm to come flooding in!
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